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Happy Valentines Day, celebrate the wonder of you!
When my husband, dressed as a court jester, first started wooing me, he told me that I was unique. Bingo, ding, ding – Jackpot! He pushed all the right buttons! I mean metaphorically of course, I’m not that cheap!
Don’t we all want to feel unique, special, and magnificent? You could tell yourself that every day as you look in the mirror. But it’s so much easier for many of us to instead criticise and magnify our flaws, our extra pounds, that way we lose patience with the kids instead of doing the counting to ten thing!
When I was a little girl, I thought that as long as I said the right thing at the right time, I could secretly think what I wanted. After all, no one else could see my thoughts! So I kept any feelings and thoughts of greed or resentment hidden, enabling me to be the good girl at school and beyond. As a Scorpio rising, like most of my family, I felt things really deeply growing up. Things didn’t roll of my back like water; they overwhelmed me, hopelessness, fear, desperation and the most useless emotion of all, worry. And so when I was terrified or resentful, I kept it all to myself, and nearly burst with the toxicity of all of that negative thought bubbling up within.
But everything you think in your brain has its own life form. Negative thoughts are utterly destructive; feeling unlucky creates a cycle of bleakness and a set of unlucky circumstances. Being quietly resentful and judgemental makes you fester in a stew of meanness. You can see it in people’s mouth and eyes. Being around negative people can put you down in their hole. Once down there, with them – it becomes so much harder to climb up….
On the other hand, positive thoughts can lift you up and make you feel stronger and brighter. What we think, it becomes so. What we say shapes who we are. What we do creates who we become, what we grow into. So thoughts are as just as powerful as words and deeds. Make yours happy and full of love. I am sending loads of Valentines cards this year to make people smile and let them know I’m thinking about them. We are all unique wonders who can manifest anything at all that we want just by thinking we can. It’s nice to have another half who reminds you of that, but it’s not essential. You are your own best advocate so blow yourself a kiss in the mirror, tell yourself how wonderful you are and then go and give a stranger a mega-watt smile. Happy Valentines Day today and everyday!
Charlie x
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